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Van Eugene Brighton
Date Of Birth:June 11, 1948
Date Of Death:November 9, 2011
Service Date:10:00 am, Saturday, November 12, 2011
Trinity Presbyterian Church

Van Brighton, 63, embarked on his sacred journey on November 9, 2011. He was born on June 11, 1948, in Junction City, the only son of Bernice Lafferty Brighton and Dale Eugene Brighton. He is survived by his wife, Jan; mother, Bernice; daughter, Kristin, and husband, Ben Ward; son, Michael, and wife, Heather; stepson, Bren McMillen; and four grandchildren: Ryan and Kate Ward, and Mary and Andrew Brighton. He is reuniting with his father and all grandparents, aunts and uncles.

Van spent his childhood in Irving and Frankfort, before spending his teen years in Kansas City, Kansas. He was a standout athlete in track and basketball at Washington High School, selected as athlete of the year for the class of 1966. He attended Kansas State University, where he pledged the Beta Theta Phi house, studied physical education, and served as a basketball manager under Cotton Fitzsimmons. He graduated in 1970, and continued to closely follow K-State sports the rest of his life.

Upon college graduation, he married Sandy Millsap and taught at Lucky High School before becoming the club pro and later club manager for Stagg Hill Golf Course. He spent many years in the golf business, at Stagg Hill and later at the Manhattan Country Club. Golf -- and more importantly, teaching golf -- was a lifelong passion to which he returned many times in his professional life.

After leaving the Manhattan Country Club, he worked with Casper Building Services and then at Keating and Associates, before purchasing Green's Book Store, which he renamed Office World.

In the late 1980s, Van went to work for Borck Brothers Menswear before moving to Kansas City to work for Verl's Custom Tailors on the Country Club Plaza. In 1989, he married Jan, and they made their home together in Kansas City. They decided to move back to Manhattan in 1994 to be closer to his children, his mother, and the community he loved.

With this move, Van returned to his passion, golf. He opened his own golf academy and gave hundreds of private golf lessons, to both adults and youth of all levels. As a coach, he touched the lives of many young people -- mentoring them both in golf and in life.

In 2004, Van took an opportunity to open his own property management business, moving to Lawrence to work side-by-side with Jan who had become a realtor for Stephens Real Estate. Together they became quite a team, assisting clients -- many who became dear friends -- find the perfect home.

A true Renaissance man with a lot of passion and knowledge about a multitude of topics, Van also devoted himself to an ongoing quest to learn about natural health, nutrition, wellness and spirituality. Through this journey, he made many long-lasting friendships with kindred spirits across the globe. After being diagnosed with cancer, he approached his battle in his own way, and did so with confidence and peace in his decisions. As a final gift to the world, Van's eyes were donated to help others.

Van has touched the lives of thousands of people and will be greatly missed. Please join his family as we honor him with a funeral service held in Manhattan at 10:00 am, Saturday, November 12, 2011 at Trinity Presbyterian Church, 1110 College Avenue, in Manhattan. Internment will immediately follow the service at Sunrise Cemetery in Manhattan. All friends are also invited to a Celebration of Life, which will be held from 2 to 4 pm Sunday, November 13, at the Lawrence Country Club, 400 Country Club Terrace, Lawrence.


  • From: Mark and Kim Morrison
    Location:Fowler, Colo

    Our prayers are with the entire family and it wss a pleasure to know Van and I will always hold a special place in my heart for him. Gods blessings.


  • From: Jack  Thoman
    Location:Manhattan, KS

    I was so very shocked and saddened to learn of Van's passing yesterday. I met Van as a sophomore at Washington High School and always admired and respected his athletic abilities, especially his speed on the track and the basketball court. For having such short legs, he could really run. My wife Sharon and I wish to express our condolences in the loss of your son, husband, father, grandfather and belvoed friend and fellow WHS and KSU WILDCAT! Jack & Sharon Thoman


  • From: Jack  Thoman
    Location:Manhattan, KS

    I was so very shocked and saddened to learn of Van's passing yesterday. I met Van as a sophomore at Washington High School and always admired and respected his athletic abilities, especially his speed on the track and the basketball court. For having such short legs, he could really run. My wife Sharon and I wish to express our condolences in the loss of your son, husband, father, grandfather and belvoed friend and fellow WHS and KSU WILDCAT! Jack & Sharon Thoman


  • From: Justin  Tadtman
    Location:Manhattan, KS

    My prayers go out to the entire Brighton family. Van gave me golf lessons for 5 years, and I have a great deal of respect and admiration for him. He will always hold a special place in my heart, and will remember him always.


  • From: Chris  Jarvis
    Location:Winfield, KS

    I am so sorry to hear of Van's passing. We were at Boy's State together, then reunited at the Beta House. He was a great human being, and I have many wonderful memories of our times together. He will be missed.


  • From: David & Nanette Nelson
    Location:Denver, Colorado

    We are saddened to know of Van's passing. We send to the entire family our condolences and pray for the Holy Spirit to abundantly comfort and bless them all. Van was just a great guy! David spent hours on the phone talking business and nutrition and how to help people improve themselves. He not only talked it . . . he walked the talk. David will greatly miss Van and his valued friendship. One thing is for sure — Van is now in a much better place and can continue to help others just as he always has done. Love from Nanette and David


  • From: David & Nanette Nelson
    Location:Denver, Colorado

    We are saddened to know of Van's passing. We send to the entire family our condolences and pray for the Holy Spirit to abundantly comfort and bless them all. Van was just a great guy! David spent hours on the phone talking business and nutrition and how to help people improve themselves. He not only talked it . . . he walked the talk. David will greatly miss Van and his valued friendship. One thing is for sure — Van is now in a much better place and can continue to help others just as he always has done. Love from Nanette and David


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  • From: Stephen Twidwell
    Location:San Marcos, Texas

    I spent several years growing up with Van in the small farming community of Frankfort, Kansas. His Mom was the best grade school teacher I ever had. I really enjoyed Van, as he was such a good all-around kid. What I liked most were his zest for sports and his competitive spirit. About a dozen of us kids would play baseball on vacant lots around town all summer long. We also rode bikes and went swimming nearly every day. We had the best times playing little league baseball. I can still see Van in our standard suit...blue jeans, white t-shirt, and red ball cap. That is a picture that will never be erased from my memory.


  • From: Penny Anne Smith
    Location:Kansas City, Missouri

    Jan, Kristin, Michael and Bernice. I was a friend of your dear husband, father and son. He was the epitome of grace and had a spirit that touched many hearts, especially mine. He had a heart of gold and I will always value his friendship and his love of life. I loved his laugh and sense of humor, even though we spoke over the phone and saw each other a handful of times over the past 45 years. He was a true "sweet-heart". Jan, thank you so much for calling me to tell me of his passing. I wish I would have been able to be with you at this sad time. I am so honored that you had the strength to share your private moments and feelings with me.


  • From: Libby Harris
    Location:Lenexa, KS

    Van was a rare man who always had a smile and an ear for listening with caring and grace. I will miss him terribly.


  • From: Jeff and Deborah Hughes
    Location:Phoenix Arizona

    When an entire high school and especially me, looked for everything that was right with someone, everything we wanted to be, the best, kindest, most gracious and sharing way a man could be, a real hero to 300 young men; we all saw Van. I have been honored to call him my friend for these last 40+ years and miss him deeply. I know God has special jobs for men like Van. God Bless you Jan. Jeff